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crying is something we have done from the moment we were born. why do we cry? sometimes we cry because we are happy, because the feelings of euphoria are just overflowing. most of the time we cry because we are in pain. now pain is a tricky subject. pain is something universal, every person in the world has felt pain before, whether it be from stubbing your toe, from a tough break up or something someone said. you can feel pain in many ways, physically or mentally. now the trickiest part of pain is that no matter how hard we try, we cannot remember pain. we may remember thinking to yourself, “I have never been in this much pain” but we can not remember exactly how much it hurt ,and why would we?

time heals all wounds, a typical saying everyones mom tells them before bed. but time is actually our enemy, it helps us forget how much it hurt. after some time you might forget how when you were laying in your bed all alone crying because they betrayed you. or how much that hang over sucked after a night drinking. or how much it hurt when he cheated on you. we feel pain in so many ways, we cry and in time we move on, but is that really the best thing? we must learn how to forgive, but we must never forget. hold on as hard as you can, remember thinking I can never forgive them, or how do we move past this? remember the pain as much as your brain will let you. cry as much as you have to. forgive as much as you have to, but never, ever forget the pain. because i promise, my friend, if you forget, you will be reminded.